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Sep 2017
Prepping Your Child for a Hospital Stay
Published in General on September 28, 2017
 
                                                            If your child is staying overnight or longer at a hospital, it may be a stressful experience for them and you. Hospitalization involves a disruption of routine, separation from loved ones and an invasion of perceived privacy. As a parent, you may be unsure how to talk to them about their stay or what to say to prepare them. You may be concerned with how much information is too much or too little.
Fortunately, this is a subject of study for many medical and mental health providers that care for children specifically.
Mitigating stress and anxiety
Telling your child what to expect in a specific and age-appropriate manner can help reduce their anxiety and stress. Correcting misconceptions can aid in a positive hospital experience by increasing confidence in themselves and the process. That can result in better sleep and less general distress.
To do this, encourage them to ask questions. Determine what their preconceptions are. The goal is to discover how curious your child is and what they need to know to remain calm. Have a discussion and request they repeat information back to you. If it's negative, help them find a more positive or balanced view. Be sure to maintain a calm tone throughout the conversation. With younger children, reading books to them about going to the hospital can be helpful.
When talking about their stay, explain what they will experience directly. What will they see, feel, smell and hear at different points of their hospitalization? You can take them to the hospital and talk to them about what you see. This familiarization aids them the child knowing what to expect and makes them feel better prepared.
Remaining truthful throughout your explanation will help avoid a rose-tinted perspective that may be damaged during the stay. Early experiences tend to shape future perspectives and a realistic view is less likely to develop a phobia. Try not to state what "will" happen, but what "may" happen. Create realistic expectations and maintain your calm and non-threatening tone throughout.
Trust your child
With realistic expectations and a positive outlook, your child stands to have a far less stressful experience in the hospital. Remind them a caretaker or you will see them as often as possible. If they're very young or you'd like to go the extra mile, give them a reminder of home such as a picture or stuffed animal to help them feel comfortable.
 
                                                                                     
                                                                                     
                                                                                     
                                                                                     
                                                                                     
                                                                                     
                                                                                     
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In Australia, one in four people lives with a disability, yet the travel system has often failed to accommodate varied needs. Autism-inclusion advocates at Aspect Autism Friendly have welcomed the government’s updated guidelines that let autistic travellers keep their noise-reducing headphones on during screening, calling it a “major step” toward more accessible air travel.
Dr Tom Tutton, head of Aspect Autism Friendly, emphasises the significance of travel in people’s lives: it connects them with family, supports work and learning, and offers new experiences. But he notes the typical airport environment can be especially intense for autistic travellers:
“Airports are busy, noisy, random and quite confusing places … you’ve got renovations, food courts, blenders, coffee grinders, trolleys clattering … and constant security announcements. It’s really, really overwhelming.”
“What might be an irritation for me is something that would absolutely destroy my colleague [who has autism]. Surprise noises of a certain tone or volume can genuinely be experienced as painful.”
Under the new policy — now published on the Australian Government’s Department of Home Affairs website — passengers who rely on noise-cancelling headphones as a disability support may request to wear them through body scanners. The headphones may undergo secondary inspection instead of being forcibly removed.
Dr Tutton describes this adjustment as small in procedure but huge in impact: it removes a key point of sensory distress at a critical moment in the journey. Aspect Autism Friendly is collaborating with airports to ensure that all security staff are informed of the change.
For many autistic travellers, headphones aren’t just optional — they are essential to navigating loud, unpredictable environments. Until now, being required to remove them during security has caused distress or even deterred travel.
Aspect Autism Friendly also works directly with airports, offering staff training, autism-friendly audits, visual stories, sensory maps, and other accommodations. Their prior collaborations include autism-friendly initiatives with Qantas. Dr Tutton notes:
“Airports have become this big focus for us of trying to make that little bit of travel easier and better.”
He advises people planning trips for travellers with disabilities to consult airport websites ahead of time. Some airports already offer quiet rooms or sensory zones — Adelaide, for instance, provides spaces where travellers can step away from the noise and regroup before boarding.
Beyond helping autistic individuals, Dr Tutton believes that more accessible airports benefit everyone. “These supports help lots of other people too,” he says. “When people are more patient, kind and supportive, the benefits flow to everyone. We all prefer environments that are well-structured, sensory-friendly, predictable and easy to navigate.”](https://c3eeedc15c0611d84c18-6d9497f165d09befa49b878e755ba3c4.ssl.cf4.rackcdn.com/photos/blogs/article-1061-1759742013.jpg) 
                                                                                    